Have you ever wondered what you can do about negative people? In our quest for personal growth, we must recognize that our virtual and physical environment plays a significant role. As highlighted in my previous article, A Guide to Personal Growth, one practical method of ensuring consistent growth is to limit our exposure to negativity.
Why?
Because negativity, often amplified through specific channels, can constrict our worldview and potential. Here, we delve deeper into this principle, exploring ways to keep negativity at bay while fostering an environment conducive to growth.
“Under the influence of a negative person, you might even second-guess yourself on important decisions and feel sad, uncomfortable, or depressed. Worse, you could even take on some of the same negative qualities you resent in a negative counterpart.”
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Sound familiar?
While I discuss why people are so negative sometimes in a separate article, here are some things you can do to make sure you shield yourself from negative people:
Here Are Some Things You Can Do If You Have a Negative Person in Your Life
Audit Your Social Circle
- Recognize Energy Drainers: Some individuals always see the glass as half-empty. While it’s essential to empathize, consistently engaging with such perspectives can cloud your positivity.
- Surround Yourself with Growth-Minded Individuals: Look for those who challenge, uplift, and inspire you to improve. Their energy and outlook will, in turn, bolster your growth.
Mindful Social Media Consumption
- Curate Your Feed: Follow accounts and personalities that inspire, educate, or uplift you. Unfollow or mute those that induce feelings of inadequacy or negativity.
- Scheduled Breaks: Taking breaks from social media can recharge your mental batteries. Use this time to read, meditate, or engage in any activity that nurtures your soul.
- Remember the Filter: Realize that social media often showcases highlights. Behind every perfect picture could be numerous outtakes and struggles.
Embrace Constructive Criticism
- Distinguish between Constructive and Destructive: Not all criticism is bad. Though sometimes hard to digest, constructive feedback paves the way for improvement. Destructive criticism, on the other hand, serves to demean without providing any actionable advice.
- Seek Out Trusted Feedback Channels: Regularly solicit feedback from trusted colleagues, friends, or mentors. They can provide invaluable insights without the sting of negativity.
Engage in Positive Affirmations and Mindfulness
- Daily Affirmations: Starting your day with a positive mantra can set a constructive tone. “Today, I will focus on growth and not let negativity deter me” can be an empowering statement.
- Mindfulness and Meditation: These practices help you stay present and recognize negative thoughts as they arise, allowing you to address them proactively.
Educate Rather than Confront
- React with Compassion: When faced with negativity, try to understand where the other person is coming from rather than getting defensive. A compassionate reaction can turn confrontations into constructive discussions.
- Share Your Perspective: You might enlighten someone by openly sharing your perspective on personal growth and how negativity hinders it.
Tying this back to our primary discussion on surpassing societal perceptions for personal growth, it’s evident that our environment plays a pivotal role in this endeavor.
By actively curating a positive space in our immediate surroundings and online, we create a nurturing environment for our growth. In a world of external opinions and judgments, shielding oneself from undue negativity becomes the bedrock for unfettered personal evolution. Remember, the seeds of growth require the right conditions to flourish; ensure the weeds of negativity don’t stifle yours.
Love, Jim
