Ten Things You Can Do To Boost Self-Confidence

Ten Things You Can Do To Boost Self-Confidence

What is your first reaction when you look at yourself in the mirror? Are you happy with yourself? Are you satisfied with what you see, or would you like to change or improve? In this article, I will cover ten things you can do to boost self-confidence and self-esteem. 

Do not confuse self-confidence with arrogance.  Being self-confident not only has many benefits, but it’s also an essential ingredient to leading a happy and successful life, 

Low self-confidence, low self-esteem, or feelings of diminished self-worth are widespread in our modern age. Given the powerful influences of celebrities, entertainment, and social media, it’s too easy to start comparing your life with others and feeling you’re not enough. Everyone is vulnerable, but our young generation feels the brunt.

What is Self-Confidence?

Let’s pause for a moment to understand self-confidence. 

Self-confidence is our internal assessment of who we are. It encompasses our feelings about our appearance, intelligence, athletic prowess, or financial status. The mental framework dictates whether we perceive ourselves as valued, content, and distinctive.

Self-Confidence in Children and Youth

Research done in 2017 by the Department of Health showed that only 19% of girls in 6th grade say that they feel confident, and that number plummets to 6% by the time they hit 10th grade.  For boys in 6th grade, 37% indicated that they feel confident, but the number still drops to 12% by the time they reach 10th grade.

The research above concluded that tweens and teens are susceptible to decreased self-confidence due to various factors. Peer dynamics, social media, bullying, academic pressures, and familial problems significantly influence this precarious phase. Regrettably, many young individuals lack the essential coping mechanisms to manage these emotional stresses effectively.

Self-Confidence in Adults

The challenges of self-confidence aren’t exclusive to the younger generation. Many adults grapple with self-confidence issues, irrespective of their experiences during their adolescent years.

Some experts say that low self-confidence in adults stems from childhood. While this could be the case, other factors in one’s adult life can impact self-confidence and self-esteem, for example: 

Some of the many causes of low self-esteem may include:

  • Poor performance at work
  • Unexpected accidents that set you back
  • Ongoing stress or stressful life events have a relationship breakdown or financial trouble. 
  • Poor treatment from a partner, friend, or co-worker. 
  • Toxic people 
  • Medical issues, short or long term.
  • Depression

Ten Things You Can Do To Boost Self-Confidence

1. Stop comparing yourself to others

To truly appreciate yourself and build self-confidence, you must refrain from comparing your life with others. Recognize your uniqueness and cherish it. Remember, behind every person’s life story, there are hidden battles. The proverbial grass might not be as green as it appears.

2. Focus on yourself, recognize your strengths and areas for growth

If you feel uneasy about some facets of your life, identify the reasons. Highlight your strengths and pinpoint the areas that need enhancement. Be mindful of your choice of words; focus on proactive language instead of negative declarations.

3. Embrace adaptability and change

It’s essential not only to identify growth areas but also to be committed to the journey. Harness any apprehension and transform it into motivation. Your dedication will pay off.

4. Set realistic goals

Progress takes time, and no one is perfect. Aim to evolve into the best version of yourself, keeping in mind that you’re setting the benchmark. When faced with obstacles, treat them as learning experiences.

5. Build a supportive circle of family, friends, and co-workers

Engage with those who genuinely care for and uplift you. Their encouragement will prove invaluable as you strive to maintain a positive self-image.

6. Stay positive 

Reinforce your confidence with uplifting affirmations and constructive self-talk. Counter any self-deprecating thoughts with reminders of your worth.

7. Consider an online detox

A 2017 study by Simon Fraser University correlated excessive online presence with heightened body dissatisfaction among women. If the online world fuels your insecurities, it might be time to take a break. Limiting online and social media use can help improve self-confidence.

8. Engage in your passions

Doing what you adore naturally boosts happiness levels. Dedicate time to activities that bring you joy and contentment. That’s right, engaging in things that make you happy can improve your self-confidence!

9. Stay present-focused

Refraining from dwelling on the past or future uncertainties can be counterproductive. Concentrate on the present and the steps you can take to enhance your confidence.

10. Avoid toxic people and relationships

Learning to recognize and remove toxic people from your life can sometimes be challenging because toxic people can be close friends, family, or even a partner.  Sometimes, those closest to you are unhealthy. A person in a toxic relationship often can’t recognize it or can’t see the harmful effects of the toxic person. 

Is self-confidence the key to unlocking your full potential? Charting a path to stronger self-confidence is more than just a journey of personal growth; it’s an invitation to a more fulfilling life.

By embracing and implementing the ten steps outlined above, you enhance your perception of yourself and unlock the potential for greater joy, deeper connections, and a more purposeful existence. Remember, self-confidence isn’t just about feeling good about oneself; it’s about equipping yourself to face life’s challenges with resilience and optimism.

By building your self-confidence, you set the stage for a life where opportunities replace obstacles and possibilities are only limited by your imagination. Start today, and embrace the brighter, more confident future awaiting you.

Love, Jim