Transform Your Life
Have you ever felt stuck?
Like, completely stuck?
Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, you can’t seem to break through to the next level in life?
Maybe you’ve set goals, changed your habits, or pushed yourself harder, but it felt like something always holds you back for whatever reason.
What if I told you that there’s ONE powerful change you can make that will completely change that?
One thing you can do to transform your life immediately?
A shift that’s often talked about.
A shift so simple that it’s often overlooked or disregarded.
A change so impactful that you will never be the same once you make it?
The change I am talking about is the difference between staying stuck where you are or achieving your goals and dreams – and ultimately becoming the person you’ve always wanted to be.
Why Do Most People Struggle to Change?
Most people want change.
They dream about success, happiness, and achieving their goals.
Most people have things in life they want to fix and improve.
But despite their best efforts, they often struggle to make out of their current situation.
And many give up or believe they’re not good enough to achieve the goals and dreams they want.
Why?
Because deep down, they don’t honestly believe they can change.
They want to change.
They try.
But they run into difficulty, risk, and failure, they accept it, and they think:
- “Well… I guess this is just who I am.”
- “I guess I’m just not good enough.”
- “I wasn’t born talented, so I’ll never be successful.”
- “I’ve always been this way—I can’t change now.”
- “It’s too late to change. I’m too old.”
And deep down, there’s a small voice telling them they can’t and so they don’t BELIEVE THEY CAN.
Let me tell you something.
I used to think the same way.
I grew up in a small town in Michigan, and when I was 15, my father passed away unexpectedly.
As the oldest of three, I took on a lot of responsibility, working alongside my mother to put food on the table and keep our family afloat.
Life wasn’t easy, and my mindset was small.
I believed that all I could do was work hard, earn a living, and keep my head down—because that’s just how life was.
I wasn’t born for something bigger.
Or so I thought.
But after many years of hard work and “running in place” in life, I learned something that changed everything.
And it had to do with mindset.
Now, you hear a lot about “mindset” and changing your mindset.
But what I learned goes beyond that.
Let me explain.
Many people have a fixed mindset.
A fixed mindset means you believe your abilities, intelligence, and talents are set in stone.
That there’s only so far you can go due to the resources you were born with or have.
A fixed mindset means believing that some people are naturally gifted and others are destined to struggle.
It’s the mindset that tells you, “I guess I’m just not good enough,” every time you’re down. The mindset makes you give up or push your dreams to the sideline.
Well, let me tell you – you are good enough.
You can achieve your dreams.
You have what it takes.
And anything is simply a LIE.
And there is ONE shift you can make to start believing that.
But before I tell you about it, let me share a short story.
Maybe you’ve heard of someone named Jim Carey.
Yes, the Jim Carey.
Well, Jim Carrey wasn’t born into fame or wealth.
His childhood was anything but glamorous.
Born in Newmarket, Ontario, Canada, he was raised in a working-class family.
His father, Percy, was a musician and accountant, and his mother, Kathleen, stayed at home to take care of Jim and his two siblings.
Life was relatively stable until his father lost his job, throwing the family into financial hardship.
At just 12 years old, Jim went from being a regular kid to watching his family struggle just to get by.
They ended up living in a van, and Jim had to do janitorial work after school to help support his family.
At just 12 years old, every day after school, he would clean bathrooms, mop floors, and do whatever it took to help make ends meet.
Life was tough, and for many people in his situation, dreams would have taken a backseat to mere survival.
But Jim had something special: the unshakable belief that he was meant for more.
Despite his hardships, he had a passion for comedy and acting.
He would spend hours practicing impressions and comedy routines while working exhausting jobs.
He knew what hardship was, and he wanted to change that for himself and others.
He was determined to make people laugh and knew deep down that his talent could take him somewhere—he just had to keep going.
At 15, he started performing stand-up comedy at local clubs in Toronto.
But it didn’t quite go as planned.
His first few performances were disasters—he was booed off stage, and his jokes didn’t land.
That should have been enough to make him quit, right?
But he didn’t
Instead of quitting, he worked harder and persisted.
He studied, practiced, and refined his jokes, developing a unique comedic style.
Over time, he started gaining recognition, leading to television opportunities.
But he didn’t just hope for success—he visualized it.
Long before Jim found success, he wrote himself a check for $10 million for “acting services rendered.”
And he carried it in his wallet, looking at it every day!
Year after year, he pushed through failures, endured ridicule, faced rejection, and kept going—knowing deep down inside the truth – that he was meant for something bigger!
His breakthrough finally came when he landed roles in In Living Color and Ace Ventura: Pet Detective, The Mask, and Dumb and Dumber.
His wild, over-the-top comedic style became legendary, and the world couldn’t get enough of him.
Soon, that imaginary check became a reality—he earned $10 million for his role in Dumb and Dumber.
It’s easy to look at Jim Carrey today and see only his success—the fame, the fortune, the legendary career.
Most people don’t know about and don’t see the struggles he endured and the hardships he faced along the way.
And the truth is, if it weren’t for his mindset, if he hadn’t truly believed he was meant for something more, the world might never have met Jim Carrey.
If he had given up after his first few comedy shows bombed, if he had listened to that inner voice telling him he wasn’t good enough, or if he had let his failures convince him he didn’t have what it took, he would never have made it.
But he did make it—because he refused to give up on himself.
Jim Carrey’s journey proves that circumstances don’t define your future—your mindset does.
He had every reason to believe he’d never make it: financial struggles, rejection, and failures.
But he refused to accept that as his fate.
He stayed determined, continued despite setbacks, and ultimately created his own success.
And you can, too!
The One Change That Will Transform Your Life
So, if you’re feeling stuck in life or have goals and dreams that seem just out of reach, what’s the one change you can make – right now – that will completely transform your life?
The single most powerful change you can make, the change that can completely redefine how you view and approach life, is simply this:
Shifting from a fixed mindset to an “I AM” mindset.
This shift means understanding that:
- You are capable of achieving anything you set your mind to.
- You have incredible potential inside you, waiting to be unleashed.
- You are not stuck as you are—you can grow, evolve, and improve.
And similar to how Jim wrote himself a 10 million dollar check, believing that you already HAVE what it takes.
That you’ve already achieved it.
An I am mindset is believing you can learn, adapt, and overcome obstacles, no matter how big or scary they seem.
It means seeing challenges not as roadblocks but as opportunities to become bigger, better, and more successful than you are today.
It means believing that you are meant for more.
People who believe and adopt this growth-oriented mindset:
- Achieve more
- Bounce back from failure faster
- Develop new skills they once thought were impossible
This is the mindset that transforms ordinary people into extraordinary successes.
How Do You Shift Your Mindset?
So, how do you make the shift?
Changing your mindset doesn’t happen overnight, but with small, intentional steps, you can rewire your thinking and change your life.
And I’ve developed a series of 8 steps you can do to shift from a fixed mindset to a growth “I AM” mindset.
Step 1: Recognize Your Current Mindset
The first step to change is awareness.
Pay attention to your thoughts and self-talk.
Do you often say things like “I’m just not good at this” or “I’ll never be able to do that”?
If so, you’re operating with a fixed mindset.
Practice catching yourself whenever you feel this mindset set in and simply disagree. Change it.
Step 2: Reframe Failure as Learning
Most people fear failure because they believe it means they’re not good enough. But failure is not the opposite of success—it’s part of it.
Every mistake, setback, and challenge teaches you something valuable.
Instead of seeing failure as a sign to stop, view it as feedback. Ask yourself: “What can I learn from this?” and “How can I adjust and improve?
Step 3: Take Immediate Action—No Matter How Small
A growth mindset isn’t just about thinking differently—it’s about doing.
Take action immediately, even if you don’t feel ready.
When you start moving forward, you shift your mindset from “I can’t” to “I’m in progress.”
Break big goals into small, manageable steps and act NOW.
Today’s small step is better than waiting for the “perfect time.
Step 4: Replace Negative Influences With Positive Ones
The people you surround yourself with can either lift and support you or hold you back.
Negative, doubting, and unsupportive people will reinforce a fixed mindset, while positive, ambitious people will help you grow.
Surround yourself with people who encourage and challenge you.
Join communities, follow inspiring mentors on YouTube or social media, and distance yourself from negativity.
Step 5: Challenge Your Comfort Zone Daily
Growth does not happen where you feel safe. Make it a habit to step outside your comfort zone daily, even if it’s just a small step. Growth happens when you embrace the discomfort of trying new things.
Do one thing every day that makes you slightly uncomfortable—whether it’s speaking up in a meeting, reaching out to a mentor, or learning a new skill.
Step 6: Develop a Habit of Lifelong Learning
A growth mindset thrives on curiosity and continuous learning.
Read books, listen to podcasts, watch educational videos, and seek knowledge daily.
Commit to learning something new every single day.
Even 10 minutes of self-improvement each day compounds into massive growth.
Step 7: Celebrate Progress—Not Just Big Wins
One of the biggest mistakes people make is only celebrating the end result.
A growth mindset recognizes that small wins are just as important because they create momentum.
Celebrate every bit of progress—whether it’s improving a skill, overcoming a fear, or sticking to your goal for another day.
Acknowledge and appreciate the journey.
Step 8: Adopt the “Not Yet” Mentality
If you ever catch yourself saying, “I can’t do this,” add a straightforward word to the end: YET.
Instead of “I’m not good at sales,” say, “I’m not good at sales YET, but I’m learning.” Instead of “I can’t start a business,” say, “I haven’t started a business YET, but I will.”
Take it further by visualizing your success and affirming it to yourself as if you’ve already achieved it.
Shifting to a growth mindset isn’t about instant transformation—it’s about daily choices reinforcing the belief that you can grow, improve, and succeed.
The more you apply these steps, the more natural they will become.
So, ask yourself:
What is ONE thing I can do today to start shifting my mindset?
And then do it!
What Now?
Well, here’s my challenge to you!
Take a moment today to reflect on an area where you’ve been holding yourself back. Then, ask yourself:
What’s one small action I can take today to challenge my limits?
How can I reframe a past failure into a lesson?
Who can I surround myself with that supports my growth?
Your future is in your hands.
The only question is—are you ready to grow?
Remember, life is a journey. It’s meant to be lived fully, experienced deeply, and enjoyed completely. Let’s make the most of it together.
Here’s to your success!
Love,
Jim
